A doctor should not be put out by you wanting a second opinion – this post links to an article on the subject.
The Merit of Second Opinion

A doctor should not be put out by you wanting a second opinion – this post links to an article on the subject.
Doctors have a tendency to give you an emphatic answer to your question, even if they don’t know.
How what have been termed “death squads” are a very necessary role for doctors.
How humor is a necessary tool for healthcare providers.